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Grieving Embodied
White Supremacy

Grieving Embodied White Supremacy is for people of European descent who are aching for a space to grieve both the weapon and the wound of White Supremacy.


As white people, we are both responsible to dismantle the systems that uphold white supremacist policies, laws and institutions and we are worthy of our own ancestral healing. In fact, the two are not separate. 

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The Weapon and the Wound

"White bodies traumatized each other in Europe for centuries before they encountered Black and red bodies. This carnage and trauma profoundly affected white bodies and the expressions of their DNA. As we'll see, this historical trauma is closely linked to the development of white-body supremacy in America."

-Resmaa Menakem

My Grandmother's Hands

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Instead of moving towards the wound, how do we move towards the longing?

-Dara Silverman


This is a 3 day ritual in the woods where we grieve collectively, explore where internalized white supremacy lives in our bodies, how we (and our ancestors) have perpetuated (intentionally and/or unintentionally) these harms and grieve our own ancestral losses resulting in a range of sorrows from spiritual starvation to unbelonging.


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The Spring 2023 ritual takes place in Ashford, WA.

Arriving Monday evening.

Ritual days: Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday.

Departure on Friday.

Each participant is responsible for their own food and optional participation in a few potlucks. Lodging included. 

Suggested (not required) prerequisites:

Read My Grandmother's Hands

Take Before We Were White

Listen to these interviews

To learn more about me, my teachers, education and trainings, click here or here to learn about the lineage of grief tending I come from. 


Applications open Spring, 2023



Sliding scale limited solidarity slots available.

40% of ritual fees will be redistributed to Grief to Action and Real Rent Duwamish.

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Grieving Embodied White Supremacy
November 14-18 in Ashford, WA